It’s been more than three months.
In that time you’ve prayed like never before. Clearly
you understood that God was calling you to join the short-term mission team
your church was sponsoring. As you thought about that, you became convinced
that in order to present yourself holy and pleasing to God, you had to make
some changes in your life, both public and private.
In addition to prayer, you attended every pre-trip training
meeting and have even been doing a daily bible devotional so you’ll
be ready once you get to the field.
Your fundraising went well and you were able to raise over and
above your goal, helping others on the team get over the hump. Once you arrived
on the field, everyday seemed so vital. If you were not sharing Christ directly
with your words, you were serving others in his name, a visible witness to the
loving and transforming character of Jesus.
Each day seemed to show a new level of the depth of Jesus as you
poured yourself into his mission 24/7. You had never experienced anything like
this in your faith walk before. You were alive in Christ, living each moment
for him. It was challenging, stretching and frightening, all at once.
And then the dreaded day came… the
end of your mission. You found yourself at the airport with the rest of your
team and that’s when you started to notice it. Looking around, with the
trip in your rearview mirror, the team started to change. Incredibly, before
even getting on the plane, many had already returned home.
Instead of the simple cup of tea your hosts made for you each
morning, everyone now needed a Caramel Frappucino from Starbuck’s.
No one even noticed that most of the drinks at that coffee house cost more than
a days wages of the people you were serving. No longer was the team looking for
ways to build each other up. Making fun of the way people looked as they
traversed the airport was way easier. And a lot more fun.
When you arrived home the first place you went was to the
bathroom. Your bathroom. You had never dreamed that the simple task of flushing
paper could bring such great joy, but it did. Next was the shower, and gallons
upon gallons of hot steamy water. You weren’t aware of it at
the time, but you were washing your mission experience right off of you and
down the drain.
The next day you and the team shared at church. Each team member
brought up a moment when they felt uniquely connected to God and the people you
went to serve. The pastor asked about future plans and most of you said you
were already making plans to return, praying daily for your new friends on the
other side of the globe and sharing Christ more in your home circle of friends.
And then it was over.
You went back to school, work, or the challenges of daily life.
The remote control seemed like it was calling your name the moment you walked
in the house. Texts from your friends started filling your phone almost
immediately and when you opened your email for the first time in over a week,
you had almost 800 messages waiting.
"Coming home from your STM without a clear plan in place to consider and apply the lessons of that mission is a recipe for disaster, one countless people and groups serve up every year."
Soon not only were you not reading your bible, you weren
’t
even praying. Life had crowded out your mission, making it indeed a short-term
experience. You felt like a failure, to yourself, your friends and perhaps
most, to God.
Relax, you’re not alone.
You’re not evil and you are definitely not
a failure. You are like thousands of other people who have gone on short-term
mission. You were incredibly impacted by God, but now back home no one seems to
understand what you went through. You are struggling to keep your mission “game
face” on as you navigate a world that seems designed not to
encourage faith, but to push you everyday into a more self absorbed
individuality apart from God.
So what should you do? The answer lies not so much in what you
should do, but in what you should have done.
I’ve found in over 25 years of receiving
short-term mission teams that the single most important part of mission prep is
not getting ready for the trip. It’s getting prepared to come home. If
leaders and participants are not preparing for the reality of reentry and the
impending faith challenges back home, short-term mission participants will
continue to struggle when they come home.
Coming home from your STM without a clear plan in place to
consider and apply the lessons of that mission is a recipe for disaster, one
countless people and groups serve up every year.
So, what should you do? Here are three simple steps to help you
cement the faith and life lessons you learned on the field.
Set aside time for reflection. This seems so basic, but it
is often overlooked. On mission, every day you were intimately connected to
God, and you also should be when you get home. Pray and spend time doing
nothing except listening to Him, seeking wisdom for your life in light of your
mission experiences. As on the field, make Him a priority.
Don’t go it alone. Proverbs 12:15 says
“The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to
advice.” In business we call this taking a partner. Get a trusted
elder, pastor, leader or friend to walk with you on your return. Often they can help
you better navigate the feelings, struggles and difficulties of coming home and
understanding God’s will.
Get involved. Find a local ministry where you can serve
others as you did on the field. God does something in us when we serve. We
should do it at home with as much excitement as we do on the field.
Three simple steps. But they come with a caveat.
You’ve got to plan them ahead of time.
Completely. Set dates, times and appointments with people before you even leave
on mission. Otherwise, you’ll be like so many others when they
return… wondering why just a few weeks ago God was so close to you,
but now seems so incredibly distant.
